She was afraid of gaining weight, she was afraid of people’s judgment because she was pregnant from a third man and people knew that her kids had different fathers, so she made an appointment for an abortion.
I reassured her that I would help her out in any way possible. I would even go with her to the gym! She knew she was having a baby boy, and that she was 12 weeks pregnant. I told her I would help her find a job after she had the baby and that she was strong and that she was not alone. I even explained that my mom successfully raised her children alone, and if my mom could do it, so can she.
As the appointment went on, we continued to address all her concerns and worries. I asked her if she knew what an abortion procedure consisted of, and she said that she did not know. I said we had a video, but that it was graphic. She said that she wanted to watch it. I showed her the video of former abortionist Dr. Levatino explaining the procedure. She responded that it was horrible, and she was not aware of how abortions were carried out.
She said that she was glad that we had talked and that she was going to have her baby.
But on January 7th, she texted me again saying she could not have the baby and that she was sorry, but she had an abortion appointment for the next day. I told her that I could not force her to make either choice, but that I was still here for anything that she needed. After constant prayer, the heavy snow that came down on Yakima must have been a sign from God to stop her from going to the appointment. She contacted me the next day and asked me if I was busy. I replied that I was not, and that she could come back to the pregnancy center.
I waited, but there was no sign of her. After a while, she texted me asking again if we could talk. We met at McDonald’s and talked for about an hour. She confessed that she did not go to her appointment. She just could not do it. I asked if there was anything at all that she needed from us. Her response was that she was very depressed. I told her about Catholic Charities and their great counseling services, even offering to make her an appointment there. I also referred her to the Prepares Program for extra support if she needed it.
She had a struggle with choosing life but has kept in touch with me over time.
On February 10th, she texted again and said that both decisions were scary to her. I reminded her that she had a 20+ week old baby inside of her who is waiting to meet her. She called me on Tuesday February 12th and said she was at Planned Parenthood again. I said I would be there in a couple of minutes and I asked her to wait for me. She said that she was going to think about it and call me back.
She did not contact me again until March 4th. I waited anxiously. When she did reach out again, for the third time she told me she did not go through with the abortion. Students for Life of Yakima will be hosting a baby shower for her sometime in April and she will get to meet everyone who has been praying for her. I personally will continue to pray for her until the baby is born.
Written by a Students for Life student leader in Washington State. 
Vandals At University of Nebraska-Omaha
Aaron Borcyk is a student at the University of Nebraska at Omaha. He is on the leadership board of a strong pro-life group that hosts a variety of great events each semester and has made a significant impact on their campus. As a large public university, UNO should be accustomed to serving as a haven for idea exchange and dialogue.
If only abortion advocates didn’t feel compelled to destroy our stuff.
Aaron and his pro-life group decided to set up a harmless pro-life display from September 23rd to the 27th.They set up 3,000 little white flags and 4 signs explaining that “Each flag equals 1 heart stopped by abortion each day in the us. 3,000 will occur today.” So far, so good, right? It’s simple, to the point, and altogether peaceful. But, of course, we can’t have nice things… thanks to fellow students who think we shouldn’t be allowed to talk.
Monday:
The group begins their day by finding that two of their signs have had pro-abortion messages written on them. Rude? Yes. Annoying? Absolutely. But the group took it in stride, touching up the signs and covering the messages. That night, one of the signs is stolen. If you’ve seen our map of campus vandalisms, you are probably unfazed by this information – maybe you’re even pleasantly surprised that it was only one sign, which is downright polite by pro-abortion vandal standards. The group reported the theft to Public Safety.
And the saga continues.
Tuesday:
The remaining three signs are stolen. After all, why contact the group to have a conversation about differences in ideology when you could just vandalize their possessions and slink off into the night? At this point, our pro-life students are sharing the same frustrations that victims of pro-life vandalizations across the country have been feeling for, well, too long. Why aren’t pro-life groups allowed the same free speech rights as any other organization? Where’s the outrage from the administration, who supposedly values free speech? And when are they going to come up with a pro-life display that’s immune to pro-abortion hatred? (That thing would fly off the shelves).
Wednesday:
The group re-makes their four signs and replaces the stolen ones. That’s when Public Safety called up our friend Aaron and informed him that security cameras had caught the thief stumping across campus with their signs and throwing them in the trash. Public Safety Officers directed the group to the trash cans where they could retrieve their signs, but not before members had already created the replacements. So, joke’s on the vandal – his influence effectively doubled the amount of signs. The fresh signs also had a new addition: “This area is under video surveillance. Stealing or vandalizing flags/signs is a crime”. Oddly enough, they stayed put after that.
Thursday:
Signs in protest of the display appear on a nearby fence, another one of the display signs is written on, and (instead of stealing), a guy takes it upon himself to “correct” the pro-life group by adding his own facts.
Check out the video the group captured of the lone individual casually strolling around placing rude, misinformed, and almost illegible posters in front of the group’s signs:
Says Aaron of the week’s events:
“We put a lot of time and effort into making a professional-looking, meaningful, and powerful display to put things into perspective. Each of us spent hours babysitting the display in the hope of deterring vandals only to have the display dismantled under cover of night. However, we weren’t deterred, and we had new signs up only hours later. It was a week FULL of rapid response.”
The SFLA Regional Coordinator in this area, David Cordaro, shared similar sentiments as he helped the group navigate their course of action. “The pro-abortion students said it themselves: this flag display is peaceful activism,” said David. “There is no excuse for the aggressive behavior directed towards this Students for Life group and their property. We are proud of how our students handled the situation and hope the school takes steps to protect the free speech rights of its students.”
So what did we learn? If you’re a pro-abortion individual, it’s much easier to aggressively impose your message on the property of your opposition than do your own display. Oh wait, that’s not the lesson… If you’re a pro-life group that faces discrimination, keep on keeping on. You have every right to share your message with your peers, and pro-abortion haters are just making themselves look bad and intolerant when they mess with your stuff.
If you do a campus display and have something similar happen, use it to help the pro-life movement! Seeing your steadfastness in the face of opposition inspires others to be brave as well. Take pictures and video as much as you can, report criminal activity to the appropriate authorities, and if you want, let us know the details so we can share your story with other groups across the country. We are the Pro-Life Generation!
